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The Scientific Parent

For PM parents who treat parenting like a series of A/B tests—because if you're going to fail, you might as well collect data on it. Set your kill criteria before trying that new bedtime routine.

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The Scientific Parent
Ada Chen Rekhi
0-6mo6-12mo

The Five-Friend Survey

Product marketers run quick surveys before big decisions. Try it for parenting dilemmas - five friends, one question, twenty minutes.

Ada Chen RekhiInspired by Ada Chen Rekhi
1 min read
Adam Grenier
0-6mo6-12mo

Find What Works Through Testing

Adam Grenier's growth playbook—try things, see what works, double down—is basically parenting. Not every method works for every kid.

Adam GrenierInspired by Adam Grenier
1 min read
Annie Duke
0-6mo6-12mo

Decide When to Quit Before You Start

Annie Duke on pre-mortems: Set kill criteria upfront. Same with parenting experiments. Decide in advance when to call it and try something else.

Annie DukeInspired by Annie Duke
1 min read
Brandon Chu
0-6mo6-12mo

Throwing Away Six Months

Brandon Chu killed a feature after 6 months. Not because it failed - wrong problem. Sunk cost fallacy kills products and bedtimes alike.

Brandon ChuInspired by Brandon Chu
1 min read
Crystal W
1-2yr2-3yr

Test It with 30 People

Crystal Widjaja ran experiments at Gojek with sample sizes of 30. The precision changes, but the direction doesn't.

Crystal WInspired by Crystal W
1 min read
Gaurav Misra
6-12mo1-2yr

Ship Small, Learn Fast

Gaurav Misra's rule at Captions: every engineer ships a marketable feature every week. Apply this to parenting experiments too.

Gaurav MisraInspired by Gaurav Misra
1 min read
Itamar Gilad
0-6mo6-12mo

Test Before You Commit

Itamar Gilad learned from Google+ that betting big on untested ideas is expensive. Start with cheap tests to build evidence first.

Itamar GiladInspired by Itamar Gilad
1 min read
Lauren Ipsen
1-2yr2-3yr

Safe-to-Fail Experiments

Lauren Ipsen on running small experiments to test hypotheses. Try parenting approaches as experiments, not lifetime commitments.

Lauren IpsenInspired by Lauren Ipsen
1 min read
Ben Williams
0-6mo6-12mo

Only Track What Matters

Ben Williams distinguishes data collection from decision science. Tracking everything vs. tracking what matters. Same with parenting apps that log every millisecond.

Ben WilliamsInspired by Ben Williams
1 min read
Keith Coleman & Jay Baxter
1-2yr2-3yr

Test with Real Humans First

Keith Coleman tested Community Notes with real users before building anything—your parenting theories need actual toddler testing too.

Keith Coleman & Jay BaxterInspired by Keith Coleman & Jay Baxter
1 min read
Lane Shackleton
1-2yr2-3yr

Write It Down Before You Need It

Lane Shackleton's rule: Coda documents product principles so decisions are clearer under pressure. Same with house rules—decide before the tantrum.

Lane ShackletonInspired by Lane Shackleton
1 min read
Marc Benioff
0-6mo6-12mo

Keep Your Beginner's Mind

Marc Benioff's meditation practice taught him: in the beginner's mind there are many possibilities, in the expert's mind there are few.

Marc BenioffInspired by Marc Benioff
1 min read