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Understanding Your Tiny Stakeholder

Getting into their head—or at least trying to understand why pants are suddenly "wrong" and the purple shirt has "bad sleeves." User research for humans who can't articulate their requirements.

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Understanding Your Tiny Stakeholder
Adam Fishman
0-6mo6-12mo

The Growth Skills Ladder

Adam Fishman's growth competency model shows what skills matter at each stage. Same framework works for developmental milestones.

Adam FishmanInspired by Adam Fishman
1 min read
Albert Cheng
1-2yr2-3yr

What Keeps Them Engaged

Albert Cheng on retention metrics—understanding what keeps users coming back. Same question for kids: what keeps them regulated and content?

Albert ChengInspired by Albert Cheng
1 min read
Ami Vora
1-2yr2-3yr

Manage Energy, Not Just Time

Ami Vora's approach to productivity isn't about time blocking—it's about energy management. Same goes for toddler meltdowns.

Ami VoraInspired by Ami Vora
1 min read
Ayo Omojola
1-2yr2-3yr

You Pick When They're Ready

Ayo Omojola's hiring lesson—you pick people, they pick timing—applies to parenting milestones. You create conditions, then wait.

Ayo OmojolaInspired by Ayo Omojola
1 min read
Bill Carr
0-6mo6-12mo

Start with Your Kid's Actual Needs

Bill Carr on working backwards: start with the customer's needs, not your constraints. Start with your child's needs, not your agenda.

Bill CarrInspired by Bill Carr
1 min read
Gia Laudi
1-2yr2-3yr

Map the Journey, Not the Features

Customer journey mapping reveals how people actually use your product, not how you think they do. Same with bedtime routines.

Gia LaudiInspired by Gia Laudi
1 min read
Jiaona Zhang
0-6mo6-12mo

Meet Them Where They Are

Jiaona Zhang on user research: meet users where they are, not where you want them to be. Kids need the same courtesy.

Jiaona ZhangInspired by Jiaona Zhang
1 min read
Joe Hudson
2-3yr3-4yr

Get Curious, Not Furious

Joe Hudson's antidote to reactivity: get curious about why someone's behaving that way instead of just reacting.

Joe HudsonInspired by Joe Hudson
1 min read
Krithika Shankarraman
1-2yr2-3yr

Know Their Actual Job to Be Done

Krithika Shankarraman says marketers fail when they guess what customers need. Parents fail when they assume developmental stages.

Krithika ShankarramanInspired by Krithika Shankarraman
1 min read
Lauren Ipsen
1-2yr2-3yr

Every Kid Is Their Own Cohort

Lauren Ipsen on finding the right fit, not the best person. Your toddler isn't "toddlers"—they're this specific toddler.

Lauren IpsenInspired by Lauren Ipsen
1 min read
Raaz Herzberg
1-2yr2-3yr

You Are Not Your User

Raaz Herzberg: most dangerous product person says 'I would never use this' as if their opinion trumps data. Your toddler is not you.

Raaz HerzbergInspired by Raaz Herzberg
1 min read